OK so I new this girl sense lik 2003,basically sense we were kids.I talked to her last night and she said she's liked me sense we meet I all ways new this but I always thought it was just that she was very sexually attracted to me and nuthen else.I asked her that and she said no she really likes me but yae she is very sexually attraced to me.but when I call her she doesn't pick up when we text its not for long and when I message her on myspace it's the sme thing she only keeps short conversation nuthen more.plus she just got in to another fight with a girl over me so in confused because I know she talks to others guys but she swears that she's always asken people where I am but she never calls or texts me 1st. I want to know what kind of attraction she has with me:confused:

Oh she swears that every girl I talk to that I'm to good for and that I should get a real girl like her but then nothen happens

This has never happen to me but I have sex this girl and every time we do she has to stop lik 10mins in to it every time.I want to know why this is because the better it feels I just keep going

Something is up. I have never stopped because it felt TOO good. Maybe it hurts her and she doesn't want to say that, or hurt your feelings.
Try not being so rough.
Then ask her what she means by it "feels too good". Have her tell you what that means.

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Originally Posted by i go 18dumby

this has never happen to me but i have sex this girl and every time we do she has to stop lik 10mins in to it everytime.i wana know why this is because the better it feels i just keep going

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First, how old are you?

Second, I didn't understand what you're trying to say. She has to stop because it feels really good or you don't want to stop because it feels good or something else?

Your post really isn't very clear.

I think you might be right bronzebabe because she starts moneing like it hurt and the faces she makes looks like she's in pain but I asked her dose it hurt she says no

I'm saying she said to me that it feels to good and that she can't take the feeling

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Originally Posted by i go 18dumby

im saying she said to me that it feels to good and that she can't take the feeling

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Sounds like she's afraid to totally let herself go. Some women are afraid that they'll embarrass themselves when they orgasm. She sounds like she may be a bit insecure of letting you see her in a moment when she has no control.

It's time to talk to her, reassure her that nothing she does would make you care less about her.

She needs to learn to let herself go.

She letts her selfgo when ever we do other sexually stuff all the time

I just got through reading all of your other threads including the one in the Adult Sexuality forum.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...ml#post2041273

If you have a girl that you are having sex with, why do you care what this girl who keeps giving you mixed signals wants.

Let her go have her own fun. You need to decide what you are doing instead of worrying about her.

That's not good advice at all.what I'm doing? I'm not in a realationship so I could have sex with anybody I want so could the girl I'm talking about and I'm sure she at leaste has one sex budy,I just want to know why she keeps telling me she likes me but doesn't want to act on it

I don't know why she is sending mixed messages. Only she can answer that question. Her brain-her messages.

Quite frankly, it doesn't matter what she is thinking if you use your brain and stay away from her. At best, she is holding you as a back-up plan, while she plays with other guys.

As I said, I have read all of the threads you have started. Are all of your legal problems taken care of? Have you gotten over your girlfriend that you talked about in May? What happens to your bed buddy if this one does want to get involved with you and you decide to go for it?

By the way, reposting the same question on multiple forums is not a good idea.

Yea me and my girlfriend are broken up and yes I had to spend 4months in jail so all my legally stuff is taken care of my bed buddy is just a bed buddy we don't got feelings for each other in that way its just a sexuall atraction its basically friends with benefits.and if I did get involed with her I wouldn't be with my bed buddy I'm not a cheater.but you might be write that she wants to play with other guys.but what questions should I ask her.and should I just keep chasen after her? And no nuthen is wrong with either of my heads

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Originally Posted by i go 18dumby

yea me and my girlfriend are broken up and yes i had to spend 4months in jail so all my legally stuff is taken care of my bed buddy is just a bed buddy we dont got feelings for each other in that way its just a sexuall atraction its basicly friends with benifits.and if i did get involed with her i wouldnt be with my bed buddy im not a cheater.but you might be write that she wants to play with other guys.but what questions should i ask her.and should i just keep chasen after her?? and no nuthen is wrong with either of my heads

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Okay, I have to do this because it's driving me nuts.

Sexual, not sexuall
Attraction, not atraction
Basically, not basically
Benefits, not benefits
Involved, not involed
I'm, not I'm
Right, not write
Chasing, not chasen
Nothing, not nuthen

I'll leave the other errors alone, those are the major ones.

It does seem that you're not thinking with your big head right now, if your posts are anything to go by.

Sorry its just I'm so use to txt message that it's a habbit now.

Get rid of that habit.

Really.

There is NO chat speak allowed in the Adult Sexuality forums.

I'd given you the benefit of the doubt, as possibly having English as your second language.

No more Ms. Nice Moderator. I will delete any further chat speak.