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  • Oct 19, 2009, 01:25 PM
    javed chouhan
    Intercaste marriage
    I am a muslim and I want to marry a girl of hindu caste?
    I know that marring a other caste girl is haram but if the girl is ready to convert islam?
    If my parents did not allow me to do marriage than what should I do?
  • Oct 19, 2009, 02:11 PM
    JudyKayTee

    Your parents won't ALLOW it? How old are you?
  • Oct 19, 2009, 02:28 PM
    ohsohappy

    I think that you're of age, then your parents should just be happy that you're in love and accept your engagement to this woman.

    Could you explain to me please, what exactly is haram?

    Also, what country do you live in?
  • Oct 22, 2009, 07:39 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    I have cleaned up a lot of off topic posts.

    The issue here is obviious this is not the US and in many cultures even including those here in the US that arranged marriages are done and important. In fact for some, to deny your parents could be death esp for the girl. And Caste or status of life is more important than almost anything else. Love has little to do with it.
  • Oct 22, 2009, 08:34 PM
    firmbeliever

    Salaams Javed,

    You can get married without your parents permission when she converts,but will her parents allow this? Are they going to let her get married to you?

    Also going against your parents wishes, will it be worth it later to be at odds with your family?
    Having love is good but will it be enough to hold together a marriage that starts with being estranged from your family?

    Wa alaikum salaam

    Ohso,
    Haram means forbidden according to Islamic laws/principles/guidelines.



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  • Sep 20, 2010, 03:04 AM
    aslam455
    Don't convert the religion of either of you... you will not need to if your love is strong enough to keep you two together life long... every religion has the same base... follow the right thing... religion are governed by same principles just customs are different... the world is changing for the better... dare to be part of it... love is life and your belief is the way of your life... follow both just don't name the latter one... my wishes
  • Nov 7, 2010, 10:13 AM
    Mr.PervezAlam
    Yes if she converts with faith in islam.
    Again, if one understands Complete rules & guidelines of Islam, then he/she will really convert to muslim.

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