Should I move on or wait for him to come back?
Hello My birthday was 08/27 my sons father boyfriend at the time through a party for me with the whole family and it was really nice mMonday came and he was leaving for work he woke me up and told me he loved me. He never came back. We were together for 4 years we lived together in NY and then later he was arrested and had to go to a program I waited for him and stood by his side we had a son together who is now 16 months old I had 2 other children Before we started that I thought he loved as well. Well he got out of the program early this year and by then I had moved to NJ because ha still has an open case he had to stay in NY and was only allowed to come on the weekends. On weekends I would have a couple of drinks with my friends and he did not like it but never mae a big deal about it. Well after my birthday he tells me that he has lost a lot of love for me because of it. I stop drinking and haven't drank since I told him that if it bother him so much I choose him over that. Well then he started telling me that he was confused didn't know if he wanted to come back he came to pick up the baby and told me that he was talking to a girl phone conversation only and that he only had hung out with her twice and the furthest he went with her was a kiss in the cheek. Well this Tuesday that passed I called him and he was being really nasty with me on the phone and then hung up on me' when I get another call from him thinking it was him it was the girl he was with she told me that she had nothing to do with our break up and that he was playing games with both of us and that he has been living with her for the past 5 weeks. As you can imagine that broke my heart and as much as Im dying to call him I haven't its been 3 days since Tuesday and he has not even called to apologize well except that same Tuesday night he sent me a blank text for what reason I don't know. I know I have to let him be a father to my son but I can deal with dealing with him right now I don't know if he will ever come back and if he does after playing hard to get of course should I eventually forgive him He was suppose to live with me his family I'm the one that was there for him who stood by his side we had plans to get married he promised me that we would raised our child together and he betrayed me. What should I do never again answer his calls let him see his child move on please any advice would be greatly appreciated.