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  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:07 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Getting married
    AS Judy caught on one of my answers, so I figured I would tell my family first, and sad as it may be in real life, this group here is about all the family I have except for my grown children.

    But I will be getting married again ( OK I know I have been warned) on Dec 7 th.

    And for those that like the funny side of it, I am going to marry my ex wife again. Over the last few months we have went back to counseling and have a totally new aspect and view on our relationship.
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:09 PM
    Curlyben
    Way to go Chuck..
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:10 PM
    JudyKayTee

    Ah, hah! That's EXACTLY why I get paid to do investigations!

    I'm glad for you... and for her. I don't think anyone should be alone and it sounds like you've fixed what was broken.

    I think it's great and on a personal note - I wish I would meet someone. However, if I EVER post I'm reconciling with MY ex I want you to drive here and slap some sense into me.
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:11 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Curlyben View Post
    Way to go Chuck..


    Hummm have to wonder which way?? But thanks not a easy choice, but this is one tha is not the norm for our advice, and I have to say it has a lot to do with the book I have been pushing on the relationshp pages latey, "Love Languages" it made even me look at a relationship in a totally different way.
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:16 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Ah, hah! That's EXACTLY why I get paid to do investigations!

    I'm glad for you ... and for her. I don't think anyone should be alone and it sounds like you've fixed what was broken.

    I think it's great and on a personal note - I wish I would meet someone. However, if I EVER post I'm reconciling with MY ex I want you to drive here and slap some sense into me.


    Still own the weighted gloves. Yes it was funny, all of her friends always told her I was still in love with her, I guess from the way I treated her when we were together for our sons events. Then of course she was somewhat jealous when I was getting closer to someone else a few months back.

    So after a lot of disucssion we decided to at least go to counseling to help see where we both were at.

    And the fact she is a much younger beautiful sexy women who used to be a college cheer leader had nothing to do with it either.

    But seriously it shows that anything is possible.
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:45 PM
    JudyKayTee

    And I repeat - if I EVER think about reconciling with my ex...
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:48 PM
    artlady

    My uncle married my aunt twice and the second time was a charm.
    Better to get it right the second time around.Many congrats!
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:50 PM
    redhed35

    Congrats to you and your bride.

    Excellent.
  • Oct 16, 2009, 02:02 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    I just hope I have not disappointed 1000's of my single women readers
    ** yea like I have them
    I did get reconised once ( that was when I took my photo off here) they thought I was a nutcase and went off on me in a store
  • Oct 16, 2009, 03:29 PM
    J_9
    Congrats Chuck! The second time's a charm!
  • Oct 16, 2009, 03:33 PM
    ScottGem

    On December 7th?? You are getting married on Pearl Harbor day? A day that will live in infamy. And this is supposed to be a good omen for a marriage.

    Congrats and good luck. You will need it for that day ;)
  • Oct 16, 2009, 03:49 PM
    rockie100

    That's great! By the way, I have the book Love Languages. It's a great read and has opened my eyes quite a bit. Side note: I have started dating my ex boyfriend of 3 years. We have been apart for 2 years. I have grown in my understanding of how to run a heathly and happy relationship since then. Hope the best for both of you.
    Rockie
  • Oct 16, 2009, 03:59 PM
    Wondergirl

    I thought you seemed softer and happier lately! Now I know why!

    Congratulations!
  • Oct 16, 2009, 05:03 PM
    Stringer

    I am happily married for the second time, not that I was too happy the first time. But I learned lessons during and after my first marriage that changed my life. It is sweeter the second time around, never have I been happier or more content.

    Congratulations Chuck, I wish you a very happy life.

    Stringer
  • Oct 16, 2009, 05:05 PM
    earl237
    Congratulations Fr_Chuck! I wish you and your bride all the best. I'll think about you on Dec 7th. "Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men."
  • Oct 16, 2009, 05:07 PM
    danielnoahsmommy

    Congrats!
  • Oct 17, 2009, 09:12 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    On December 7th???? You are getting married on Pearl Harbor day? A day that will live in infamy. And this is supposed to be a good omen for a marriage.

    Congrats and good luck. You will need it for that day ;)


    Yes, I was born on the day the Titanic sank ( not the same year of course) and Dec 7 was when I was adopted
  • Oct 17, 2009, 09:20 AM
    nikosmom
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    yes, I was born on the day the Titanic sank ( not the same year of course) and Dec 7 was when I was adopted

    LOL!

    Congrats Chuck and I hope this time ends happily ever after! :)
  • Oct 17, 2009, 09:20 AM
    mudweiser

    I don't know what the past was like with her but she must be some lady that you'd want to marry her again ;)

    Good luck Chuck and congrats :)

    Sarah
  • Oct 17, 2009, 01:23 PM
    friend4u178

    Congrats Chuck

    Hope it all works out for you.

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