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I am 30 yrs unmarried male. I have married girl friend, having a child studying in 7th. She talk's about sex with me. Shall I have sex. She is calling me to her house. I till now not have intercourse anybody. Only kissing & hugging with my younger girl friend only. So if I have sex this married friend, any problem? Advice me.
Ok, your post was written in a confusing way... but I'll try. So you aren't married,you are a virgin, have a married/pregnant girlfriend whom you are wondering if you should engage in sexual intercourse with? The answer is NO. First of all, she's married! And yes, many problems will come with having sex with her. Problems for her, you, and her family. The best thing you can do is end this relationship and find someone who can give you their all... not just sex.
Please do not sleep with this woman, at least wait for her to get a divorce.. and if she's not planning on doing that than sorry to say but she's just a skank with no morals cheating on her husband. That's one of the many things that angers me is cheaters. Especially MARRIED ones. Go find yourself someone with less baggage. Once a cheater always a cheater. And if you're a virgin.. which I'm not sure. But if you are, do you really want to lose it to someone who's cheating on another. Good way to go out huh? No not really. BAD IDEAA ALERT!
Also if your 30 and a virgin you must have some SERIOUS self esteem problems & should probably work on that before sleeping with some random hussy that's going to leave you hurt. Cause she will.
I am from india, here virginity till marriage is not problem, But till this age may be aproblem, what I have to do . I think having sex with a experienced person can slove my problem. Is it so?Quote:
Originally Posted by itsamor
I think having a meaningful relationship with someone who is not married will benefit you. If you have sex with this woman, you will get hurt and cause several problems.Quote:
Originally Posted by binucbg
I am told by her , that she is not going to carry this relationship for long, she ask me to have this till my marriage & I have not told her that am virgin. She ask me, if I had earlier experience. I said YES. She is tempting me , to have FUN. She daily call me, I have no peace...Quote:
Originally Posted by rankrank55
After reading his other posts, I think the point about having a child studying in 7th grade was because he is asking about a 7th grade textbook on another board.
I am bit concerned that you are not as old as you are attempting to portray yourself. However, it could just be a language barrier. I am giving you the benefit of the doubt.
She is married so stay away from her. Plain and simple she is off limits no matter what she thinks. I would even go so far as to break off any relationship with her or her son.
I am friend of her , not her son. I didn't him,she said that all. There is no doubt of my age, only to doubt is, I am have no sexual experience. I have not gone beyound friendship . So, there is a confusion & I not going to marry recently.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cat1864
In India is sex with a married person accepted? Morally is it acceptable to you to have sex with someone else's wife?
My advice? Have a first-time experience with a virgin. This woman is out of your league for several reasons.
OK frds , I would convey all you are answer to her, & reply after . THANKSQuote:
Originally Posted by JudyKayTee
Why are you accepting her calls, corresponding with her at all?
How about "I am not interested. Do not contact me again."
That would work.
I am her friend , I or she connected we cannot break the friendship inaday. Then there will be queries from every side and if she is in need sexual satifaction,she would had with another guy. If , I cut her relelationship , she would take her own path. I want to be agood friend . That's all . Thank'sQuote:
Originally Posted by JudyKayTee
Hi, binucbg!
If you were to put yourself in her husbands' place, what would you think about someone like you having sex with your wife, please?
Thanks!
Nobody can be in anyplace & if anybody want cheat , no one can stop . Is it wrong for having sexual pleasure , which she did't have. I also, not believe I too can satisfy her.Quote:
Originally Posted by Clough
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Originally Posted by Clough https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/images...s/viewpost.gif
Hi, binucbg!
If you were to put yourself in her husbands' place, what would you think about someone like you having sex with your wife, please?
Thanks!
Hi again, binucbg!Quote:
Originally Posted by binucbg
That still doesn't answer my question. What would you think if you were her husband, please?
Thanks!
I can't answer in a word, it depends on circumstance & my physcial condition. For U referance , read OSHO, books . U must know that still I had not have sex with awoman. I want to have sex with little risk. Still I have not thought of marriage, going for avirgin , later she holds me. Sorry if my idea is wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by Clough
And what do you as a virgin have to offer this woman sexually?
According to this you have a girlfriend. How does she feel about you wanting to get laid by your "married friend"?Quote:
Originally Posted by binucbg
You live in India. Adultery is nothing to take lightly in any part of the world. How lightly is it taken in India? What happens if her husband, family, community, etc. find out about your "fun"?Quote:
I want to have sex with little risk
Have you thought past losing your virginity?
I have girlfriend, means I didn't have sex with her . She is a friend like any other. The girl I kiss was my collagemate once. The married girlfriend is not going to lose her virgnity, because of me. Adultery means adding unreal to real and here we are not going to add , instead subtracting the need of her unstasfication toward her sex stravation.me too. So...Quote:
Originally Posted by Cat1864
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