Everyone invited to cousin's wedding except me and my husband
My daughter and her family and me and my husband live together. She and I were both invited to my cousin's bridal shower. We were unable to attend as young children were not invited. Gifts were sent with another member of the family. Everyone in the family received a wedding invitation, including my daughter and her husband. My husband and I were not addressed on their invite nor did we receive one. This is my 1st cousin's (who is deceased) only daughter. I will be sending a gift. Should I say something about not being invited or just let it be? And if so, how do I word it?