I recently started dating someone new (about 2 months ago ) and everything has been fine until recently. Ive been becoming super stressed out due to a lot of work at school and my job and everything piling on, and I've been feeling a little weird around my girlfriend. I'm not sure if its just me being stressed and this is how I'm taking it out, but I feel almost as if she's more into me than I am into her, she's already asked me to go out of the country with her for a month in May. I'm not quite sure what to do about it. Also recently when I have been stressed Ive found myself wanted to talk to my ex about these things which is all well and fine we stayed good friends.
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As of recently my ex and I have been talking more (we have been in contact here and there up till about a week ago or so then it picked up) and were just being friendly, we both have had causual dates between our breakups with other people. But we've been talking more and more recently and she recently told me on her birthday that she is a little sad that everything between us is really over. Which makes me wonder if I should end things with my current girlfriend and attempt to fix things with my ex or maybe this is just a phase because I'm stressed.

What you need is neither.

You are not adequately attending to either relationship, so why not work on yourself?

Sort out your personal problems before you worry about which girl to be with.

OK thanks a lot!

Spare some thoughts for them, but focus on yourself. Hang out with your mates ! Go for a jog ! Do something you really enjoy to take your mind off the stress!

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Geez dude, your in a new relationship, and your still in the old one emotionally. No wonder you can't get with the new program, your still in the old one, and not only is the ex distracting you, she is confusing your feelings.

What you had is over, but you haven't healed enough to enjoy yourself with your new partner, that makes her a feel good rebound from the looks of things, and that's not fair to the new girl at all.

Look back, or look forward, that's your decision, but you can't do both. I would certainly back off the ex big time.