If its obvious, CLEARLY obvious that the darker skin girl is more attractive, then why do the black guy talk to the average or ugly light girl? Do they realize what they are doing? Do they just not care? Is it a conscious decision that they make?

I've been in that situation before and sometimes, I feel like they do it because they resent darkskin women in some way.

Sigh. I understand your frustration. But I honestly feel that it was somehow brought up in the "what made you start lightening your skin" thread... And that resulted in drama. Can we please not bring up this issue and beat it to death? This board is about skin lightening. Not why does the guy not like the dark girl. I'm sorry but this just brings outsiders in with their "all knowing" perspectives and idiocy. I understand your pain though. But your question is not the purpose of this forum. If you want to lighten. Lighten. Leave it at that.

By 'outsiders' I assume you mean other members to frequent the boards..

It is a public question and answer forum,I would have nothing to add to the skin lightening topic,as I know nothing about it.

To the op.

Your situation goes across all nationalities,if you are confident,that in its self will attract a confident man...

Why would you want a guy who can't see past the surface?

Don't we all just want a nice guy who treats us right.

It's the same with guys who only want blondes,or girls with big boobs, those guys are shallow.

Closed, merely a complaint that has little validity to it.