Hey, I met this guy a few weeks ago and I could tell from when we first time we met each other that we were attracted to each other... does he think about sex every time he sees me or does he think of a variety of other things not having to do with sex along with thinking about sex

Fact: guys think about sex all the time. (or close to all the time)
[heck, many women think about sex just as much!]

Fiction: they can't control those feelings.

Just because he's attracted to you sexually doesn't mean that he has to be an animal. Men are capable of controlling their desires much more than what's portrayed on television. Just because he wants it doesn't mean he can't wait. He will wait if he's into you and looking to build more with you.

Lol. I understand what you are saying... mayb I guess I was thinking he was not just thinking about sex but mayb a relationship

Maybe, only time will tell. Don't worry about figuring everything out right away. Just go with the flow and enjoy the ride. The journey is half the fun as reaching your destination. ;)

I'm wondering why I am trying to rush relationships so much.. how do I stop

Some guys want to "score" and then move on, others want a relationship. And even others don't know for sure what they want

If you are doubting about whether he cares for you or not, just hold off on the sex for a little and you will soon know. You don't have to stop it, just cut down to once every two weeks or so.

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Originally Posted by dreamyeyez

lol. i understand what u are saying...mayb i guess i was thinking he was not just thinking about sex but mayb a relationship

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First thing he is going to think is she's cute I'd like to bang her... then as they get to know you its I'd like to bang her and have a nice conversation with here... eventually its I'd like to bang her, and spend a lot of time with her as well as talk with her... finally its I'd like to bang her, and everything else that goes with it... like kids, house etc...

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Originally Posted by smoothy

First thing he is going to think is she's cute I'd like to bang her......then as they get to know you its I'd like to bang her and have a nice conversation with here.....eventually its I'd like to bang her, and spend a lot of time with her as well as talk with her.....finally its I'd like to bang her, and everything else that goes with it....like kids, house etc....

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Lol.thanks.well put.

After reading all the questions you asked yesterday, I am of the opinion that you might be the one with sex on the brain.

Your boss, your ex, a new guy, even your homosexual friend are all the subjects of questions along the same lines.

You are the common denominator in all those situations. I think you need to review how you look at males and interact with them. It is okay to be comfortable with your own sexuality. However, it isn't okay to do everything in your power to attract such attention and then play the "I don't know what is going on. It can't be me" game.

Cat, I believe you are on to something. I share the same view on this.

Most men will think about sex subconciously a lot of times during a day without actually realising it , when their fronted with the Bait it brings it out.

A normal male will not even contemplate a relationship with a mate unless they are sexually attracted to them as well. That doesn't mean they won't talk to you.

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