Originally Posted by
ANB428
Melislowe, in my opinion, I believe that you did the right thing. When I turned 18, my mom kicked me out of her house because I wouldn't follow her rules. She too was a single mother and raised my brother and me. I never came home by my curfew, skipped a lot of school, hung out with the wrong crowd, etc.
She had enough and kicked me out the day afte rmy 18th birthday. I went down a tough road after that. I dropped outta high school, took off and moved to CA. I ended up getting pregnant a couple of months later. After I had my daughter, I left her father. Went back to school to get my diploma, and straightened my life up. I am now 23 years old raising a 4 year old, I work two jobs and go to college full-time. My mom helps me out now, but didn't until I started helping myself. Now, I am not saying this to scare you and take your daughter back home. I had to learn my lesson the hard way.
My point is, I thank my mom everyday for showing me tough love and doing what she did for me. If I would have never gone through that I wouldn't be who I am today. I know other girls that are my age and they have everything handed to them, and most of them have kids and live with their parents. I don't, I support myself and my daughter and I have grown into a woman and take care of my responsibilities. If my mom would have bailed me out when I begged her to, I wouldn't be where I am today.
I hope that my story helps you a little bit and lets you have some piece of mind that you are doing the right thing (again, that is my opinion). Good luck with everything, God will be your best friend to help you get through all of this, so lean on him. God Bless.