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  • Oct 12, 2009, 05:15 AM
    LJDK
    Is this common for women or not?
    Hi.

    I have a question. Is it common for women being unable to achieve orgasm without clitoral stimulation? My fiancé said she cannot climax without it. So when we do make the sexy time, I make sure my pelvic area rubs against her spot... If I just pump away in and out without rubbing her she won't reach climax. She gets the feeling that she is going to p p.

    So I don't know. We talk very openly about our sex life, and she reckons there is something wrong with her in this regards. What is your take on this? It is kind of limiting our positions a little.
  • Oct 12, 2009, 05:27 AM
    redhed35

    The clitoras is the female penis,so to speak.

    Many women need a lot of foreplay to reach climax. Its perfectly normal.

    Some women can climax with penetration,although the majority need clitoral stimalation,either through oral,or other means.
  • Oct 12, 2009, 05:44 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LJDK View Post
    Hi.

    I have a question. Is it common for women being unable to achieve orgasm without clitoral stimulation? My fiance said she cannot climax without it. So when we do make the sexy time, i make sure my pelvic area rubs against her spot... If i just pump away in and out without rubbing her she wont reach climax. She gets the feeling that she is going to p p.

    So i dont know. We talk very openly about our sex life, and she reckons there is something wrong with her in this regards. What is your take on this? It is kind of limiting our positions a little.

    Perfectly normal. Women are not as simple as guys are in that respect.
  • Oct 12, 2009, 05:57 AM
    Synnen

    MOST women cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation.
  • Oct 12, 2009, 06:39 AM
    hollylovesbrandon

    I am proud to be one of the few that can climax without clitoral stimulation. But, unfortunately, most women can't. There is nothing wrong with her. Just add a little more foreplay to the bedroom and hopefully she will be satisfied. Nothing wrong with more foreplay right?
  • Oct 12, 2009, 12:48 PM
    sandalwood7

    Very normal indeed... Good to talk about sex with your partner so you can work out what you both enjoy and need to climax. Women are complicated! There are many positions that work if the lady needs clitoral stimulation. May I recommend her on top, or her lying on her tummy with you from behind. She can touch herself too... doesn't just need to be you rubbing.

    Really recommend heaps of foreplay...

    PP feeling can mean that you are hitting her G spot.

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