Hi I am a 26 year old black male who suffers from ed I've been with my girlfriend for five months and we really haven't had pleasurable sex due to my ed problem and we only see each other once every two weeks.but lastnight I had this funny feeling that she was cheating on me so I called her and she told me the weirdest she said her ex came beating on her door one in the morning throwing rocks at her window.she told me someone keeps calling her phone from a blocked number and she thinks its him but its weird because we had this problem before and she found out it was him so she changed her number but I'm saying to myself why is this happening with the new phone number. She must be calling him or something to be honest I think she's still ing him because I have ed and I know she gets horny so she got to be cheating if this blocked caller keeps calling her phone then all of a sudden he pops up at your back door one in the morning something is fishy she I trust this woman and she's bi she said all the men she's been with don't trust her kind of funny right should I move on

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Originally Posted by tallglass of h2

hi i am a 26 year old black male who suffers from ed ive been with my girlfriend for five months and we really havent had pleasurable sex due to my ed problem and we only see each other once every two weeks.but lastnight i had this funny feeling that she was cheating on me so i called her and she told me the weirdest she said her ex came beating on her door one in the morning throwing rocks at her window.she told me someone keeps calling her phone from a blocked number and she thinks its him but its weird because we had this problem before and she found out it was him so she changed her number but im saying to myself why is this happening with the new phone number. she must be calling him or something to be honest i think shes still ing him because i have ed and i know she gets horny so she gotta be cheating if this blocked caller keeps calling her phone then all of a sudden he pops up at your back door one in the morning something is fishy she i trust this woman and shes bi she said all the men shes been with dont trust her kinda funny right should i move on

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I had an ex that stalked me for years.

I changed my number, I even got married and changed my name, my address, you name it, he still found me.

He wouldn't stop.

You don't have to give someone your number for them to find out what it is. Even an unlisted number. People talk. If he knows even one person she knows then it's possible.

The thing is, you don't trust her. Without trust there's no relationship.

Talk to her. Tell her your concerns and go from there.

Good luck.

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

I had an ex that stalked me for years.

I changed my number, I even got married and changed my name, my address, you name it, he still found me.

He wouldn't stop.

You don't have to give someone your number for them to find out what it is. Even an unlisted number. People talk. If he knows even one person she knows then it's possible.

The thing is, you don't trust her. Without trust there's no relationship.

Talk to her. Tell her your concerns and go from there.

Good luck.

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I just hope its not what I think it is for real

Why are you dating a girl that is bi?

I think your letting your problem make you feel insecure. See a doctor, and then see if your just paranoid.

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Originally Posted by chuff

Why are you dating a girl that is bi?

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I know right she says she doesn't want to be with a woman but she will always be atrravted to them honestly I think she's cool and I love her but we disagree too much and she told me today I should not act like I don't trust her cause I neva been in a serious relationship before and I said so what you have to be with a person for awhile before you can trust them and I met her off myspace

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Originally Posted by talaniman

I think your letting your problem make you feel insecure. See a doctor, and then see if your just paranoid.

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I think I need to see a doctor to I'm a ariesand she's a virgo is that why we don't get along all the time and the thing I hate about her is that she wants to be the dominate one in the relationship

If you don't get along, you either fix it or you move on. It's not that difficult.

Also, could you please try to add more punctuation you your messages? It's difficult to read because I can't tell where sentences begin and end. I'm sure everyone who read this post had a bit of difficulty, so speaking for those of you that do; we'd appreciate it if you put a little more structure in your responses. Thank you! :)