My girlfriend is texting guys from morning to night talking to me once in a while.I confronted her about all these texts so now she went and got a prepaid phone for texting so I won't know.is this a sign we are done?or should I just pretend she isn't doing this?or I am I looking to deep into something that is really no big deal in a relationship,you should be able to talk with guys or girls all you want and its no big deal?

Well, I would bring this up as a serious concern to her and see what she says. The fact that she switched cell phones on you so that you could not see who she was texting is a bit odd.

Have you always been this way when it comes to her texting?

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Originally Posted by johnhoward

you should be able to talk with guys or girls all you want and its no big deal?

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Yeah and you two should be honest with each other about it... unless you're controlling...





ARE YOU CONTROLLING?

Yeah, she's up to no good if she's got to get a second phone. End it before she does.

So it appears she is "a" girl friend, and does not want to be just your girlfriend, so if you are OK, with each of you seeing other people, I don't see an issue.

Disappear from her life, and see if she notices.