Loss of sex drive, should I try drugs?
I'm 21 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and I love him a lot and we have a good relationship. I was on depo for 2 years and it slaughtered my labido. I used to always be in the mood and now its just gone. I also have mirena IUD which I want removed because its not helping either, and then to add I was on antidepressant, so I hasd a labido killing bimb go off in my body... But that is over and done with and has been for a number of years. Is there any kind of drugs that may help? testosterone cream, estrogen cream...some kind of pill? I keep looking for an answer and I keep getting all these damn responses like "You and your parnter need to do more foreplay, maybe you're stressed, get more sleep, try communicate with your partner, maybe he's not the one, try different positions, try toys, try warming lube, see a therapist" etc etc blah blah blah, been there don't that. It's not in my head and it none of the other stuff, been there done that!. I'm just so frusterated because I want to have sex, I would do it 3xs a day if it were physically possible but my body has a hard time responding to stimuli... like it WANTS to... but the chemicals and juices so to speak can't get flowing... even though my mind is... Any advice? Doesn't the high levels of progestin decrease estrogen or something, maybe that's why I have no sex drive or maybe it has affected the testosterone as well?
More of the information I find on low sex drive is for woman with menopause:(
I'm only 21