My husband left and I discovered he met another woman 1 month prior
My husband left me 3 months ago and I have discovered that a month before he left, he was in contact with an old girl friend from high school. (30 years ago). I have since found out that they are dating. Since he left, we have jointly filed bankruptcy. Needless to say, neither of us will have enough money to live separately with our wages being garnished. He will not address anything regarding our relationship or money issues. He does not know that I know about the other woman. Shortly, he will be slammed with his wages being garnished and will not have enough money to live on. I don't think the girlfriend has any idea of the bankruptcy. When my husband hits rock bottom, what do you think he will do? Will he try to come back to me? Do most men after an affair come back to the wife. Our circumstances are so complicated with the money issues. Everyone is telling me that he will finally wake up when he see the whole financial picture and how it will effect him. What do you think?