Husband Cheated, Step Daughter Gay
I'm new to this site and a little shaky about asking questions, but here goes...
My husband cheated on my two years ago. I trusted him with the utmost and to find out he was cheating was hard... very hard. We have four children together (2 mine, 1 his, 1 together)... we have custody of ALL the children so they are all ours. I kept the phone bill with all the calls he was making to these women (yeah, it wasn't just one) and all the calls they were making to him. He has never told me ANYTHING about anything... I had to research own my own to find out who these women were. There is still one nagging number on the bill and I know that he won't come clean, but until I get closure (if that's possible) I don't think I could "leave it alone"! And on top of all of that to deal with, his biological daughter (she's 14) told us that she was gay in April... that is another HARD issue that I am dealing with, especially since my biological daughter (she's 13) shares a bed with her. His daughter whom mother is NOT in the picture has always caused major problems in our home from one thing to another. I had claimed her as my own but just found out that she goes around telling people that I am her "step-mother" which I am but we have talked to the kids a long time ago that we don't have any "steps" in our house. Her mom doesn't call her or write and haven't for some years now. Basically, I am ticked with both of them (her father and her) because it's like it's one thing after another with both of them. Her father thinks that she is some helpless princess that he treats like gold, while I know better!! Any advice... this is just the overview of my story, trust me there is plenty more, but it would probably end up being a book! Thank you for any and all advice!! :confused: