OK so here's the dilema I'm in I had been seeing my ex for about 3 years and maybe a month ago she told me we needed to talk so she came over after work and she told me that we were getting distant and she said she didn't see a future with me anymore. So that was a Thursday and the next day she went out of town to see her grandparents and she told me when she gets back we could hang out so I went over to her house and we hung out when I went into her room all my pictures were still up when I left she told me she loved me. Well about 3-5 days later her brother tells me she has a new boyfriend which I new who he was because she worked with him well I went ot confront her and they were together, and lets say things turned ugly. So I did the nc thing and up until about a week ago then she text messaged me and told me she wanted to come get her things so I let her and it brought all my feelings back out. I love her I really want to know what the chances are for getting back together, and maybe tis is a rebound thing or what so please be easy on me.

She already has another boyfriend. Wouldn't you like to keep some of your dignity? Move on man, why be the back up plan for her? Be a plan A guy, not a plan B.

Soon as you hear this, or see this:

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Originally Posted by blackonsun

she has a new boyfriend

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You disappear from her life, immediately. It becomes too easy to make a fool of yourself. Plus, do you want her back more because she has a new guy in her life?

No I want her back because I love her

She has another boyfriend already... after a 3 year relationship that should show you how much she really cares about you.

Don't put your life on hold for anyone. Go out and have fun man, life is too short to be someone's back up plan.

That's what I have been doing just trying to figure out if she rebounding or what's going on