I really need some advice on soul custody. Can a child be placed with one parent to soul custody with one time drug use? As I am a great mom and love my child soooo much I need some answers, it feels like everybody has a say in her life but me

Sole custody, not soul, soul is what god or the devil gets.

Normally as long as you have been clean for a while, it will not have that much effect. The longer in the past the better.

I have seen women with active drug and drinking abuse get custody of their children. But parents today are getting more and more joint custody, and of course there will be visitation.

All sortsof things, from home conditions, jobs, ability to care for child, who has had custody, has other parent visited or had anything to do with child.

There is no one item but all sorts of items judges look for.

This sounds like the other parent is threatening you that they will get custody if you do this or do that.

Talk to a local divorce attorney who can tell you more what happens in your local court with your judges in your area