So I've noticed that when I'm beginning to "like" someone I begin to ignore them and I say dumb things!

What is this about?

I'm naturally very sarcastic... and when I catch myself crushing on someone I begin to be even more so.

I'm thinking it's because I use sarcasm as a way to convey how I really feel at times... because I can't say it with a straight face? [fear of what.. ]

It's becoming a problem for me. Guys end up thinking that I am TOTALLY NOT INTERESTED & I'm too proud to say that I am.


I need diff point of views.
What do you guys think it is?


Thank you!

Seems like maybe your afraid of rejection?

I know I use to act sarcastic and beat around the bush and pick on a girl when I liked her, till I realized I was totally missing out because I was afraid of rejection.

Just get more serious. If you like a guy, compliment him and be interested in his conversations! That's the best way I can tell a girl likes me... When she's into what I'm talking about and flirts by like sitting next to me or leaning on etc...

I tend to ignore girls that I like too, but I haven realise how I managed to get their attention. Maybe you can learn to express yourself more in a positive way, you can't be sarcastic all the time for good!

Swallow your pride and let the guy know that you are interested, straight up.

If you can do that, it means that you can change. Take the first-step first and then see how many other steps you can take.

Fear of rejection... haha yes I think this is it. I don't know why though? I mean 99% of the time I know they're into me too... I think there's something else going on


& I have difficulty expressing my feelings, period. Crying, showing sadness... I consider all of those signs of weakness so I rarellyyy display them. Which is bad because people think I'm heartless; whe nin reality imdying on the inside! Lol




And yes... I need to swallow my pride. Its so hard though!



Thanks guys! :)