So there's a guy at work I like and he likes me and when a bunch of us at work went out to have a dirnk and stuff he was all drunk and tried to kiss me but I didn't cause I wanted him to remember the kiss and stuff lol anywayz and he talks to me a lot but then yesterday after his drinking incedent and stuff he didn't talk to me a lot and when I told him why not he just said I'm real tired and gave me this look but it was like aflirty look do you know what I mean? Anywayz I don't know if he likes me. But then there's this other guy he's a real good friend of mine and he does like me and I don't know who to choose from them :/ I'm so confused!

You don't need to double post your questions. It doesn't help with answering your question-- it actually confuses the members of AMHD.


Now about your question, I think you need to back up. Before jumping into a relationship with either of them you need to see why you want to be with them in the first place. My suggestion is to take is slow, slow! Let the guys keep courting you and soon enough one of them is going to give up. Also look at their past relationships:
-did the cheat, lie?
-why did it end

If one of them is a chronic cheater or has anger issues, then you shouldn't jump into a relationship with them.

Relationship are really meant for adults. If you want to jump into one then it's time to think like one. Don't just rely on your feelings---most often you'll end up hurting yourself.

Sarah

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Originally Posted by mudweiser

You don't need to double post your questions. It doesn't help with answering your question-- it actually confuses the members of AMHD.


Now about your question, I think you need to back up. Before jumping into a relationship with either of them you need to see why you want to be with them in the first place. My suggestion is to take is slow, slow! Let the guys keep courting you and soon enough one of them is going to give up. Also look at their past relationships:
-did the cheat, lie?
-why did it end

If one of them is a chronic cheater or has anger issues, then you shouldn't jump into a relationship with them.

Relationship are really meant for adults. If you want to jump into one then it's time to think like one. Don't just rely on your feelings---most often you'll end up hurting yourself.

Sarah

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I know about there past relationships. We speak a lot :/ and I trust them so much and they never cheated :)

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ys-402478.html

If you put your question in the Teen section, are you old enough to drink in your country?

How long have you known him for? Have you spoken while you guys were sober? Even before the drunken incident?

I'm sort of understanding what your saying whittywhitney :) u should follow your heart because if he was drunk and it doesn't happen a lot then go ahead. Take that risk :) but if he gets drunk a lot :S bad ideaaa.

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https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ys-402478.html

If you put your question in the Teen section, are you old enough to drink in your country?

How long have you known him for? Have you spoken while you guys were sober? Even before the drunken incident?

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Yes I'm aloud to drinK!! I'm 16. And yes we always speak when he is sober even before the incident.