Well where to start my partner and I have been together 2years but we had known each since our teens,but we lost touch,then we met 2yrs ago she was in a abusive marriage of ten yrs and I was at the end of a loveless partnership.we fell in love straight away corny but love at first site and within 3mts we were living together she had applied for a divorce which was final June 08,christmas we got engaged the relationship was full of love and amazing sex she said I was what she had always dreamed of and a wonderful father too her 9yr old daughter we had our fights as do all cpls but they were due to her family not being nice to her or her ex husband takkin to her like dirt when rhe dropped their daughter of at his.10 weeks ago she started doing nites at the old folks home where she workr and we haunt had much time for us so things haue been a little tense for us then two weeks ago I went out and she picked me up later and we had row about her eami and her ex and how he talks to her the nxt day rhe carried it on and rtormed oe for 4hrs but whem rhe came back rhe reemed different and raid I don't thhnk h kove you amymore ro h leet the houre and within a hour I got a text saying don't come back rn the nxt day I got my things and left and I text evey day but nothing wrote letterr still nothing but then rhe rang me and said she saidnt loved me for 6mths but every day she told me she loved me still great sex text me she would never let me go text me everx night frm work saying she loved me amd missed me euen the day of the fight she said I couldn't live without you now she has changed her number I don't understand why her acions for the last 6mths were of sum1 deeply in love

You started the question, so well

Found it very hard to understand at the end. But what from I can understand, is first
Why do you even fight about her X husband?
if he talks to her like dirt
which is awful and wrong
does she defend? Him?
If so you should honestly just let sleeping dogs lie.
You her and him shouldn't have much to do with each other.

unless he starts beating on her then yeah step in.

And I really do think you guys rushed into this Sooo fast
she leaves a guy after 10 years then marries another one?
now she says she wasn't in love with you for 6 months sounds like this women has no idea what she wants.
or how to exspress her feelings.

My Question
Is this relationship? Really worth all this drama?

It's a hard post to understand -if she s changed her number she probably wants to be left alone.

Hi my ex and me were together 2yrs and now have been apart 20 days we were great,in love,great sex loadsa love,she has had a bad past her ex husband who she divorced for me, used to beat her and abuse her mentaly,plus her family are not great either,she told me all the time I was what she had dreamed of,recent we have been falling out about her family and how mad I get about how her ex talks to her when she drops her daughter of.and us not getting time due to her on nites,so after a big fight she kicks me out and says I don't love u,and haven't 4 6mthr,but the last 6 months were as loving as all the other so why is she saying it she has now changed her number because I kept textin I now she can shut down she had to learn to to do that in her marriage I but this just seems different she has gone frm all love to what seems like hate ouer night you just that's what I don't get one day we are in love tells me she will love me forever and never wantr to lose me then the day after says she doesn't love me help

Please keep all questions regarding the same issue in the same thread

It is difficult to understand your question, please use propre grammar and punctuation.

If you broke up, then you should leave each other alone so that you can heal from the break up.

It does not matter why or how.
Nothing you can do.. will fix it
It is her choice and you should not feel upset about it.

I know its easy said than done trust me, I have been there.
Best thing you can do my friend is start to heal :)