All right so I'm 18 n me and my boyfriend have been tryna work on a baby for about 5 months now we have never used a condom and he has always came in me but I'm not getting pregnant.. why is this?

I'm normally not all that religious, but things like this make me think that their must be a god and he must be looking out for us all...
You're 18! Why the heck are you trying to get pregnant?? You can't even spell. How will you ever be educated enough to get a decent job to support you and your baby, if you get pregnant? Yes, pregnant. Not pregnant.

Well, have you gone to the doctor to see what your DOCTOR says about it? Have you started fertility testing? I'm guessing NO on that last one, because you haven't been trying long enough. It takes on AVERAGE about a year for most couples to conceive.

Have you gotten pre-natal pills from your doctor?

And my big question: What kind of job do you and/or your boyfriend have that you can afford a child at 18?

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Originally Posted by justcurious55

i'm normally not all that religious, but things like this make me think that their must be a god and he must be looking out for us all....
you're 18! why the heck are you trying to get pregnant?!?! you can't even spell. how will you ever be educated enough to get a decent job to support you and your baby, if you get pregnant? yes, pregnant. not pregnant.

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Out of greenies but I'm on the floor - absolutely on the floor!

Classic!

And Synnen, no joke, is a wonderful, calm, rational person. Meanwhile, here I am...

Hi?
I'm 19 years old with two kids, let me tell you something someone is watching out for you. I would go back and would have been more carefully, and now I'm about to have my second one, they are NOT mistakes, I wish I would have been older and wiser. It's hard. There are many Friday and Saturday nights I would love to be out with my friends partying and clubing but do you know what I am do I'm sitting at the house with my kids changing daipers giving baths making bottles, it's not all that great, I didn't get to live my teenage hood, but I do love my kids and they are my world. All I'm saying is have fun don't worry about having a family of your own at 18. Are you even sure he will stick around. I thought mine would, he ran 3 days after she was born, and haven't really spoke to him since she's almost a year now, can you support this child, do you have a way of going are you sure you want to be staying up most nights feeding a baby or running them to the doctor, are you really ready to grow up?

STAY A KID AS LONG AS YOU CAN.

I had my first child at the age of 21. She is now 8 yrs old as of yesterday. I then had 2 more in the year of 05 and then another in the year of 06. I am now 29 yrs old and might be pregnant again. I even had my tubes tied. Girl you are only 18 and for me I was lucky that my kids dad stuck around cause at first I was just a "bonner" to him. We got married in 08 cause I did not want to get married so I made sure he wasn't leaving. Let me tell you WE have through a world of crap and we are still strugglin. Stay a Kid cause one morning when you wake up it will be all gone. Stress? WOW what a world of it when you have kids and their age is not far apart.

This question is from 2009 - please keep an eye on the dates when you respond.

(It's pregnant, not pregnant.)