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  • Oct 1, 2009, 08:39 AM
    tinabundy
    Is this baby my boyfriends?
    Okay so on sep.15.2009 I found out I was 2 days pregnant. I had my last period on the 26 or 27. I had sex with my ex. Two times on like the 30 and the 1. but then the rest of the time I had sex with my boyfriend. Does it really take a week for the baby to develop? And is this baby my boyfriends?
  • Oct 1, 2009, 08:51 AM
    Justwantfair
    You will not be able to determine the paternity of your child without DNA testing.
    If you have slept with two men within the same month it is irresponsible to try and guess who the father might be.
    Children are a lifelong commitment and responsibility, you can not just choose that for someone else.
  • Oct 1, 2009, 08:59 AM
    Synnen

    There's no way to determine who the father of the child is before the child is born.

    You should tell BOTH men that they are possibly the father.

    Sounds to me like you might soon have TWO exes and NO boyfriend... unless your boyfriend is waaaaaaay more understanding than most.
  • Oct 1, 2009, 12:09 PM
    KARIEMELIA

    How exactly did you know you were only two days pregnant? I am confused!
  • Oct 2, 2009, 08:41 AM
    LearningAsIGo

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    okay so on sep.15.2009 I found out I was 2 days pregnant.
    Do you mean at that point you were 2 days late?

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    I had my last period on the 26 or 27.
    The first day or the last day of your period?

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    I had sex with my ex. Two times on like the 30 and the 1. but then the rest of the time I had sex with my boyfriend. Does it really take a week for the baby to develop?
    I think you mean a week for the baby to implant. Meaning the egg is fertilized and approximately 7 - 10 days later, it implants in your uterus. That is when you might start to experience symptoms and have a positive pregnancy test.

    Pregnancy is counted from the first day of your last menstral period. So, being 2 days pregnant, probably makes you 3.5 - 4 weeks pregnant.

    Sex APPROXIMATLEY 2.5 - 1.5 weeks before your period is probably when you conceived.

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    and is this baby my boyfriends?
    Honestly, only a DNA test will tell you. Sperm can live inside your body for up to 5 days.

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