I'm 56 and to be honest with you I really don't get into love making with my husband anymore. Hes an alcoholic and I'm a diabetic of over 20 years. What's wrong?

Well, you answered your own question:

1. he's an alcoholic. That probably means he doesn't perform as well as he used to, and that little if any attention is given to turning you on.

2. You're diabetic. Sometimes diabetes can have a profound effect on your libido--have you talked to your doctor about your decrease in libido?