The No contact Rule/Special Case
Ok. Here is my story. He went on a cruise the 14th of this month and he hasn't called yet. He is 49 years old and Im younger. He called up until the 9th. Everything was fine until that point. He Called everyday. We Went on dates regularly. This has been an established relationship for a year and a half now. He promised to call everyday and even post some pics online for me while he was on the cruise. Nada. Zilch. I called on the 21st of this month (sept) and broke it off with him or should I say I spoke to his voicemail. I knew he was home because I found out from his nephew by the 22nd that he had been home. Do you think he will call by his birthday which is October the 12th?
He has done this before but it wasn't for this long. I will use the no contact rule as a game if you will, since it looks like he is playing them to see if it is over. Sh*t is really going to hit the fan because HE Won't BE GETTING A CALL/EMAIL/SMOKE SIGNAL FROM ME ON HIS B-DAY. I mean, I'm confused.:confused: The last thing he said was "I miss you. I really want you to know that. I will call you tomorrow." Now he is gone from gods green earth. (Not really, I know he is OK, because I spoke to his nephew. I used his nephew as a lifeline to find out he had been back for a day. So boom. So, let the no contact game begin). See its fresh so Im pondering if he is going to miss me? Or call? I guess we will have to see. But I was asking you what do you think the chances of him calling are?
Hypothetically speaking, I have intiated the no contact rule to take immediate effect as a result of the no communication on his part. In this scenario, he ignored me, then I left him a message and broke it off. Who would be considered the 1st person to call or break the no contact rule in this scenario. (No, Im not calling, I am just asking) Yes I said its over, only as a result of his actions.
Its only been one week since I broke it off with his voicemail. I do have someone else new in mind, but I don't want to be too hasty and use this guy for a rebound relationship. I have a habit of moving fast. Im just saying don't want to move too fast. :p