Ok. This is a long story but I need help. My girlfriend Sasha and I were together for a year, or 2 days before a year, when she broke up with me. We had been getting in a lot of fights and some of them did involve violence but nothing real bad. She and her mom and other people said I was controlling and got badly jealous when other guys or girls were around(she's bi and I'm a lesbian). When we broke up she said that it will take some time before we ever get back together again because I need to change my attitude(Temper, controlling, jealousy, etc.). She is going out with this guy named Ryan who treats her a lot better than I did. He makes her smile and laugh all the time, she said I could do that at times but not as much as him. Basically she said when I change, I have to prove it to her and be better than Ryan. She says she doesn't love him but I;m scared that by the time I change, she will and she won't want to ever be with me again. I just got a counselor last week who's going to help me be better but I really hope it works because I don't want anybody but her. She's my pride and joy and I will do anything for her. I just need some advice. Something that will change me SOON. Because I want and need her back. I need her in my life and she's the only one for me. Please help me. Signed, iwantherback.
