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Married to a guy that has been married before who has a son, I also been married, and have a son. When we have his son I know for sure that he will never treat my son like his own the way he treats his son.
When I see them together sometimes I could not help but wish that I am still with the father of my son, because I know that only him can be a real father to his own.
I know that a real father can only give the truth, and unconditional love for his own son.
Separated for over a year now. Ex has girlfriend, and I also have a boyfriend. We have 2 beautiful kids together. It was hard at first. Been together for 11 years.
Not till this afternoon my younger son got very upset because iIwas going through the computer with him, and he saw a our family photo, then just a photo of me and him. He is 7 years old. Ne started crying loud, and saying he wants his dad, so I hug him, he was very upset, I then ask him why? When all he could say was I"I just want to hug my dad mummy, please bring him home".I I started crying because I could feel his pain,he used to see them every weekend, but now, he is too busy with girlfriend. Then while I was hugging him, and both of is crying, iIwas thinking, I wish it is that easy, I wish I could just say to him please come home, come home...
I want him to be more responsible, I feel that he does not care about our son as much since we separated. I feel so hurt for my son. I just wish he could be an adult about the whole situation. I know I cannot control everything but he is his son. I would do anything for my son's happiness,but I cannot take him back because I know I will never be happy after knowing that the excuse of our separation was him cheating on me.
At least try to be there for our son.