I reallly want to get my tongue or eyebrow pierced my family is not really into that type of stuff a and I feel like they would be like a part of me like define me sortof. I don't really caare what people think cause people are just rude and judge mental and my family has this thing like if I get my tongue pierced I'm a "slut" or eyebrow I'm a "dike" which I'm neither one and I don't understand how they all know me so well and can automatically be like o you have a piercing your this or your that. Just because I have a different hunk of metal somewhere I'm now a different person and it's the same with my friend and I'm starting to feel like I'm just not acceoted for who I am. But my mom thinks I should do my monroe but I don't want to can someone give me some advice on how to handel it or view from their perspective and your oppinions too. By the way I'm 14 so age is some of it.:(:(:(:(:(:(