NC rule and late night calls?
What do I do? I have been following the NC rule like a monk for the past couple of days. I've been going out with friends, focusing on my studies, but every time my phone rings, my heart jumps up to my throat in the hope that my ex is calling. It has only been a few days, so I do not know what to expect. My question is, what happens if my ex calls late at night, especially during the weekends? I go to Uni, and sometimes our standard operating procedure was that we would call each other after going out with friends to hook up. How would I handle the late night ex booty call? My guess would be to ignore it.
And how do you stop thinking about her, or wondering what she is doing? Should I even be this affected by this relationship? I am only 21 years old.
1 week no contact (so far)
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I have been one week no contact so far. Honestly, I expected my ex to call me during the weekend. She didn't. We've been doing the breaking up/getting back together thing, which was very emotionally and physically draining on both of us. However, she would always call me within 3-5 days. I still miss her terribly. Does this mean that she has moved on with her life and that it is over? Is it normal for me to worry about all this in this stage of the breakup?
I'm 21 years old, if that helps. She is 20. Both of us are in Uni.