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  • Sep 22, 2009, 06:17 PM
    soonersfan
    Cant feel me
    My boyfriend can't seem to feel me orgasm but can tell by my facial exspressions. Help me what can I do?:rolleyes:
  • Sep 22, 2009, 06:31 PM
    letmetellu

    It really does not matter if he can "Feel" you when you have an orgasm as long as he knows it is happening.

    He may can feel it but just does not know what he is feeling for. For me I feel the tightening around my penis and her body stiffening.
  • Sep 22, 2009, 07:52 PM
    Synnen

    Why does HE need to feel YOUR orgasm?

    He gets to feel his own! That should be enough!
  • Sep 22, 2009, 08:10 PM
    Gemini54
    I don't quite see why this is a problem. If he can tell by your face and you're both enjoying yourselves, why is this an issue for him? Maybe you just both need to relax and stop 'judging' the experience.
  • Sep 22, 2009, 08:42 PM
    bronzebabe

    I agree with the others. Really, he doesn't "need" to feel your orgasm. As long as You feel it, he should be happy and You should be happy.
  • Sep 22, 2009, 09:13 PM
    Alty

    What? It shouldn't matter. He's lucky that you're having an orgasm, he wants to feel it too? Really?
  • Sep 23, 2009, 06:58 AM
    shazamataz

    If he is worried that you are faking it then perhaps there are some insecurity issues that need to be addressed.

    Otherwise it doesn't matter if he cannot feel when you have an orgasm.

    Sometime my partner can 'feel' it when I do from the muscles contracting, other times he can't feel anything... does he care?
    No.
    He just needs to hurry and have his own so I can roll over and go to sleep :p
  • Sep 23, 2009, 07:35 AM
    stevetcg

    When you orgasm, bonk him on the head. Then he'll feel it.

    Otherwise... don't worry about it. If you both enjoy it, that's all that really matters.

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