My girlfriend wants to have sex with me, but is too scared
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. We both are crazy in love with each other, but we are having a bit of an issue. We are both at the stage where we would really like to have sex with one another. We have fooled around, done virtually everything but the actual deed. We have talked about it, but here is the issue. She is terribly terrified of getting pregnant. Horrified. She has no real desire to have kids, and she is also 18 years old (I as well). If we fool around and I ejaculate, even remotely near her, she is worried all month until she gets her period. She is currently on birth control, and we have talked about how I will use protection as well, along with pulling out as well. We have 3 tiers of protection, but she knows that she won't be able to handle it. Im not pressuring her at all, and I am truly happy with her how things are, but it's frusturating her, and I really want to help. I have shown her the math and the likely hood, but she feels even with the slightest chance, it would worry her. The issue may be she has never done it before, but, Im not sure. Please help, or tell me if you (other women) go through the same things