Hey I just lost my virginity to a girl and I didn't use a condom. I don't know if she's clean or not even though she says she is. Are there any symptoms of std's right after sex? I plan on getting tested tomorrow but want to know if there are any signs that I should look out for.

Thanks

Depends on how long its been since you had sex..

You would see pubic lice if you had crabs.

STD's and STI's sometimes don't show any symptoms,some men get a discharge from their penis.

Get tested and learn from this.

Also as a side note,having unprotected sex causes pregnancy!

If this girl was not on any form of contraception you may find yourself with not only an STD but also a new name... daddy.

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Originally Posted by redhed35

depends on how long its been since you had sex..

you would see pubic lice if you had crabs.

STD's and STI's sometimes dont show any symptoms,some men get a discharge from their penis.

get tested and learn from this.

also as a side note,having unprotected sex causes pregnancy!

if this girl was not on any form of contraception you may find yourself with not only an STD but also a new name...daddy.

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We had sex yesterday around 6 pm est so its been less than 24 hours since the encounter. I have mild burning when I pee but I have had that before I had sex so I don't think there is a difference there.

The girl I was with is on the patch so I'm not worried about pregnancy. I am worried because she has had unprotected sex with 2 other guys before me and while she said they were clean I don't know for sure, I am very scared and actually quite depressed at the notion that I got hiv when losing my virginity.

I am terrified.

Look,go to the doctor,get checked out,take it from there.

How old are you?

The burning sensation might be a UTI or yeast infection, which you could have given to her. Find out what it is, and if it is something you could have passed along, tell her about it. You would want her to tell you if she had something you could contract, so it's only fair to return the favor. Also, you should go back and get retested in 3-6 months, since many infections have an incubation period before they can be detected.

In the future, use a condom and make sure you know and trust the person you're sleeping with.

Pray to your maker,first.Learn from this mistake,secondly.Keep it wrapped up,thirdly!You're probably just fine but,why play games with your life?good-luck,dear.

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how old are you?

the burning sensation might be a UTI or yeast infection, which you could have given to her. find out what it is, and if it is something you could have passed along, tell her about it. you would want her to tell you if she had something you could contract, so it's only fair to return the favor. also, you should go back and get retested in 3-6 months, since many infections have an incubation period before they can be detected.

in the future, use a condom and make sure you know and trust the person you're sleeping with.

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I am 20 and the girl I had sex with is 18. The burning I am having isn't much different than it was before when I was a virgin so I'm not really worried about that. Plus if she had herpes or something like that I would have seen it. The thing I am really worried about is HIV because its incurable and I want to have kids in the future. I will never have sex without a condom again I have more than learned my lesson.

What do you guys think are my chances of having aids? She's only 18 but has had unprotected sex with other guys before, but says that they were clean.

There are a lot more incurable std's than just hiv. Herpes has no cure right now, and even when there are no visible signs someone can still pass the virus on to someone else.

I would strongly suggest fully educating yourself on the symptoms, risks, and treatments of std's. You should also get yourself tested every 3-6 months for the next 1-2 years, regardless of rather or not you have unprotected sex, and at least once a year after that. Like I said before, many std's have an incubation period before they can be detected. Men don't always have the symptoms of some std's, even when they're carrying the virus, and can still pass them along to women.

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Originally Posted by hheath541

there are a lot more incurable std's than just hiv. herpes has no cure right now, and even when there are no visible signs someone can still pass the virus on to someone else.

i would strongly suggest fully educating yourself on the symptoms, risks, and treatments of std's. you should also get yourself tested every 3-6 months for the next 1-2 years, regardless of rather or not you have unprotected sex, and at least once a year after that. like i said before, many std's have an incubation period before they can be detected. men don't always have the symptoms of some std's, even when they're carrying the virus, and can still pass them along to women.

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I know but hiv/aids is the only one that kills you. I am getting tested on Thursday of this week and then again in December. How much is this RNA test? I want to know if I have hiv now not in 3 months.

I had some burning in my right testicle last night along with some slightly noticeable dull pain. Should I be worried?

Go to the doctor, no one on this site can tell you whether you have an STD, just like we won't be able to tell the girl if she's pregnant when she comes on to ask.

Wear a condom, STD's aren't the only concern.

Herpes doesn't always present itself with visible leasions.

AIDS doesn't present itself with visible symptoms until its well advanced.

Pregancy however does present itself with a VERY visible and demanding child.

Was you sleeping through your sex ed class? Or did you just think you knew more than the instructer did?

If you just had sex the other day then an STD test will probably not show anything immediately. It can takes several weeks to months from when you're exposed to testing positive.

Use a condom, be safe.

Let me see unprotected sex with a girl it appears you don't know that well.

Of course you should be worried.
And the worst such as HIV will not even have any symptons often for years,

But untreated, many of the others will make you wish you were dead.