What advice can you give me about dating a man with 2 children by two other women and they both hate me

I say stay away. It all only adds to the drama.

Do you want to live daily with drama?

I sure would not.

Hey, I'd only do it if you had three of your own, two by one man and the last by your cousin, twice removed, but still your family has disowned you for it because then the drama you are signing up for wouldn't seem like so much. Ya know what I mean?

I wouldn't get involved. He sounds like someone who has a problem with commitment as well as being irresponsible.

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Originally Posted by massio patterson

what advice can you give me about dating a man with 2 children by two other women and they both hate me

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What the reason as to why they hate him?? Do u know? :cool:

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Originally Posted by massio patterson

what advice can you give me about dating a man with 2 children by two other women and they both hate me

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I've been in your situation and it isn't easy. I would look at his past and see what is the true story behind this guy. There is always a story and drama to follow. Just keep your eyes open and please don't be blind to what is going on around you. Just get the story staight.

Well, if they hate you, it's their problem, not yours. They're not your mother, they're your boyfriend's kids' mothers. No doubt they've been bitten by the green-eyed monster. But it's nothing for you to lose any sleep over. Of course, I'd be a little leery about someone who had two children from 2 different relationships but is no longer with either of them. That's something you may want to think about.