Trying to improve my social life
Hey everybody,
My problem is I have never been a really social person. I have a couple good friends and that's about it. I would like to improve my social life and I have been trying really hard. I try to talk to people more but only people I have reason to talk to like workers when I buy food and stuff. I have always been a really shy person.
I usually wait for people to start a conversation with me but after the ice is broken, I actually talk a lot. I have problems approaching others like in class, in my building if they don't talk to me first. I don't know what my problem is. I guess I'm not that confident of a person because I shy to be around places where there is people. I've been wanting to join a school basketball team because that is my favourite sport but ill just feel weird showing up to tryouts.
Just today, I was practicing my music and the neighbours came over and politely asked me to keep it down and I apologized and kind of closed the door. As I'm not a very experienced musician, my stuff sounds horrible and I think they heard all of it. Now its just even more awkward being in this building.
Anyway I need help, advice and suggestion? Thanks.