Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. Im 21 and he's 24, he was a virgin. When we first got together he wanted me to touch him, and we had sex almost everyday for about a week. Then he moved me in with him ( and he asked me to move in with him) After I moved in with him we didn't have sex for a month. And when I want to do it he says he's not in the mood. And I ask him why in the beginning he seemed like he wanted it and now he doesn't. At first he told me that it hurt him, so then I went to the store and I got KY yours and mine. He said that it doesn't hurt. But he also tells me that he doesn't like sex. And I ask him what don't you like about it?. And he tells me he doesn't know... Then he told me that he doesn't like the feel when its inside... I love him so much... But I feel like there is something wrong and he is not telling me. All he tells me is that he loves me so much and he doesn't need sex he just likes our relationship with out it...

What do you think?

He could be gay or asexual have you asked him about it?

Has he seen a doctor? Does he have childhood trauma relating to sex (molestation, etc)?

I don't care WHAT his problem is, really--he can't expect a healthy partner to NOT be interested in sex.

Start with a doctor and go from there.

Why did you move in with someone you barely even knew so quickly?

He clearly has issues... may be medical, may be emotional.

Sounds to me like he needs to talk to a professional. If he doesn't like the feel of being inside you then something is wrong - either physically or psychologically.

Have you any idea what his childhood was like?What kind of relationship does he have with his parents?