I went out with this guy for a month and then broke up with me about a week after I refused to give him head. He went out with one of my friends a while beofre me and proudly bragged about using her so everyone has told me that he used me too and I when I didn't "put out" either he broke up with me. The dilema is I STILL LIKE HIM! And I can't help it! And then he talked to be for the first time in a month after we broke up and was really sweet when I saw him at the show (or theme park) and he let me walk around with him for an hour when I couldn't find my friends and gave me his jumper! Then he had the nerve to ask me back to his place, it was hard but I said no. please help me I don't know what's going on or what to do please help!:(

Gee, I wonder what you should do. He is a jerk. You still like him, you go back to him knowing he just wants sex then your stupid.

Joe

Don't be used! You don't deserve that. I am proud that you are smart enough not to say no. I think you should forget him and move on. Would you be truly happy knowing that he can brag about using you as well?

HE IS AN IMMATURE A**HOLE...
Walk away, he is not even worth being a friend.. he is a loser. He feels good by putting others down!
UUUggg that would make me sick..
Just keep thinking of the reason he broke up with you :cool: keep doing that and you will still look back and think why the hell did if even fancy suck a jerk!

Cherry whatever you name is, I stated IF YOU Like him and go BACK TO HIM. Then your being stupid. I never said you were going back to him.

I do not understand where you come off. I give you advice and tell you what it would be if you did go back because you apparently like him so much.

I did not go at you at all, but if that is how you took it, it is really too bad. You must be feeling guilty about something. Did you already go back?



Joe

Just let this guy go. He sounds really immature... I know you must be hearing this a lot, but you will be fine. You should never have to sell yourself to anyone. Either he cares for you or he he doesn't, but this bozo sounds like he is just playing you.

Hello I am your reply do your problem! Don't worry about this 2 much! It sounds lyk a bit of puppy love here! It is hard to drop out of love but you can do it slowly! I woudnt take this chap back because of what he has done to you just because you woudnt give him head! There eis plenty more fish in the sea! Let him play everyone, and if it makes it beter just stay friends... and it seeems to me as though he was Trying to use you but you was right to say no and well done! Why don't you go to the pictures with some off your best friends and forget about chaps for a bit! Good luck xxxx

I am telling you right now my ex is havng the same problem with this guy she just started to date and she already slept with him and after that realized she made a mistake so now he brags to his friends and told her he is getting fed up with her and decided to time space. Im trying to get her to come back to me because I still Love her and never did anything like that. What Im trying to say is there is better out there then this and your better off look at it like this what's harder. Walking away from a Month of years like I'm left with. Trust me go with the easy way move on while you only have a month involved there's less pain. Find someone that likes you for you and deserves you and show the type of love you can show them. I hope this helps.

Sweetie the same thing happened to me but I was stupid enough to go back to him and he did it again to me. Listen guys like him never learn and never change I know you care about him but more on there is A LOT better out there believe me and they will treat you 100x better too.

Are you serious.. did you just say " HE LET me walk arround with him"
First off he should be lucky that you still talked to him
After he broke up with you because you wouldn't have sex with him
And because he went out with one of your friends rite after..
If you really like this guy than I think you should play hard to get and
Be mean to him that's what guy like. But don't beg him he's not worth it girl!

First, you must explain the attraction of a rat who dumps you for not putting out, lying about it, and dissing another girl who he got over on?

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please help me I don't know what's going on or what to do please help!:(

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Leave this guy alone would be a great start.