Hi, I've been with this guy for 10 yrs and have 2 lovely kids, about 8 months ago I found text/pics from gay men,asking how he was and when they are meeting. I was devastated it felt like my life with this guy was a lie,when confronted with the evidence he said it was only abit of fun and meant nothing.for the kids sake I forgave him and tried to forget it.
Recently I used his phone and to my horror there was texts/pics from more gay men,
The thing that upset me the most was that he was replying and sending pics of himself back. Saying that he was at home bored with his girlfriend and rather be with him,while having sex with me he was thinking of him, pics included himself pleasuring himself.
I love this guy and wound never betray him in this way,why the hell would he do this to me
And risk loseing me and the kids, He doesn't know YET that I found these texts.
I can't just walk away after 10 yrs and with 2 kids as well
Don't know what to do
Thoughts anyone, PLEASE