Originally Posted by 
tickle
				 
			When you marry you have the option of keeping your maiden name, or using the name of your spouse, or having both hyphenated or non hyphenated.. It is not a legal transaction, I mean you dont have to go through the courts to accept your spouse's name. By the same point, you can have your name any way you want hyphenated. Many professional women do not want to lose their identify for business purposes and choose to keep their maiden name such as Mary Smith-Brown. 
So, vicky, just go ahead and do it. You dont have to get married a second time to accomplish your name the way you want it, that is just a very stupid suggestion.
tick