Why does every male I meet want to have sex with me?
I am 49 years old.
I was sexually abused as a child (a very small child).
My uncle and brother sexually abused me.
Every single male I have ever met and grown to know as a friend has put the hard word on me, eventually.
Last weekend I was propositioned by a 19 year old!
I compliment people a lot.
I like to find nice things about people and let them know about it... e.g.. You have very nice eyes, you have a lovely head of hair, you are a very good conversationist, etc. I have always done this as I like to get compliments too... especially when they are true. I do this with both sexes.
It is something that not many people do. Some say that this is "flirting" to me it is just stating the honest truth about a nice thing a person has.
I am a monogamous heterosexual, but lately I have been attracting gay ladies too!?
My latest (male) partner rings me constantly asking to come over, he offers me all sorts of favours in the hope of getting between my legs. He is a great lover, but I am starting to feel like the only reason he wants to be with me is for the sex.
I have been propositioned by married men, bosses, and people I barely know...
I am no great beauty.
Funnily enough, I have a good friend who is a nymphomaniac, and she can't seem to get anyone between the sheets..
Is it just me, or is this the case with most women?
Are we all just objects that need to be pleased... in the hope of getting between the sheets?