I am having a really hard time dating... can anyone help me out.
I feel like I fall for every girl I date. I've been single for about 6 months after a 3.5 year relationship that included: living together, cooking, romance, GREAT sex life, talking daily, sharing deepest secrets, cuddling, etc...
Since my relationship I've dated ~10 women. Some I have dated numerous times, some once then keep in touch... But I'm having a hard time just enjoying myself because I miss the things I had with my ex a lot and it seems none of the women I've dated so far can even come close to feeling the same way for me my ex did.
Now I know I'm "jumping the gun" by only dating these women a few times then comparing to a long relationship, but the couple I've been really interested in all don't have the same views I do in the long term... For instance, one girl I'm so head over heels for right now and she is for me too, but she doesn't want kids, marriage, and I feel from talking about the past that she's really iffy about commitment.
I just feel really lost right now and could use some words of encouragement friends.
And just to add I think I am a very good looking guy. I gym daily, eat right, work hard for my money, and know how to treat a women.
But I feel like I wear my heart on my sleeve and can't just relax and have a good time...
And I'm only 21!! Uggggh...