Torn between the good guy and the bad boy.
Bottom line,
I've been with the "nice guy" for about 6 months known him for over a year.
Our relationship has always been long distance (he lived in the same state when I met him but when we decided to date he had to move to another state)
I would only seee him once every 2-3 months.
In one of our latest break ups I met another guy who lives down a few blocks from me it was an instant attraction it was intense it was just... chemistry! So we went out almost every day we got along great but, he is in a heavy metal band, only works part time even donates blood for cash but he is nice, no drugs he's a bit of a dork like the other guy.
So I have told both of them about one another (since even as an ex my ex would call me everynight)
Once my ex found out he was not upset he was just begging for me to wait for him to move back which he decided to do right away (when that was not the plan) I told this to the new guy and he said that was lame (we had only hung out for about 2 weeks at this point)
My ex begged and begged like a little kid (well he is 21) and so I gave him a chance...
He has been here to stay for about a week now and I find myself thinking of the other guy... I mean I have fun with my now again boyfriend, we laugh and do all kinds of stuff but the attraction for me towards him is simply not there!
I also started to notice I am so mean to him I get irritated with things he does and sexually I'm pretty much like a dude once we are done I roll over and pass out
And with the other guy it was so intense and passionate it was amazing but I could tell I was a bit more emotionally envolved with him than he was with me and that made me very insecure.
Today we started to kind of talk again.. he knows I'm still trying it out with my boyfriend but I told him that if I don't start to feel something I will have to end it...
What do I do? I'm stuck with the typical: "good guy" and "bad boy" sinerario...
The good guy wants to give me the world
The bad boy keeps me thinking about him all day
They both have something to offer but I don't want to cheat...
How can I decide?