I have been dating this girl for 4 years, in a serious relationship. I have been wanting to get out for 1 year. I have met this new girl 2 months ago, I really like her but don't want to scare her away with my previous relationship problems. I'm sure I want out of my previous relationship how do I get out with shattering her? Please any suggestion would help. Please know that I was friend with her for 3 years before dating her.