Hey guys, I am 17 year old guy, BI, and I live in Forest Grove, Oregon, and I need your help. I am really lonely and depressed and I keep feeling lonely everyday, I want a boyfriend around my age, or like 15 or 16 and I was wondering if anyone can help. I am looking for anyone who can help me, I know this isn't a dating service place but frankly what am I supposed to do?

Any help will be greatly appreciated, if anyone here wants to be friends and stuff don't hesitate it'll mean a lot thanks for listening

Please not hateful comments, Yahoo wasn't any help LOL

Thanks again :)

Hi, jumperjory!

You're correct that this isn't some sort of dating service site. By using it though, you will find people that can help you with your loneliness and just about anything else that you might want to know.

What I would like to ask you is, why are you lonely and depressed, please?

Thanks!

Yes tell us a bit more about yourself please.

A boyfriend or anyone outside of yourself can't make you feel better.

You must learn to love yourself and be happy alone.
Alone does not have to mean lonely.

My dear,you are a unique individual with many many assets,how do I know this ,because every person has so much to give.
What are your talents?
Are you kind?
Do you look out for others?
You can never be lonely when you love yourself.You are the only person who can make yourself complete.No one can fill you but you.

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Hi, jumperjory!

You're correct that this isn't some sort of dating service site. By using it though, you will find people that can help you with your loneliness and just about anything else that you might want to know.

What I would like to ask you is, why are you lonely and depressed, please?

Thanks!

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Well all my life, I've wanted someone to hold, and I used to have that, my great friend and I were like brothers, and we always hugged and loved each other but he moved away and I don't know where he went and well I am kind of lost. I don't know where to turn to and the problem is that Oregon isn't really a great state to declare I am BI in LOL, so I have no idea what to do, and I've always wanted to take care of someone, with love, and I haven't been able to find a person around my age like that

So yeah any help would be greatly appreciated :)

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yes tell us a bit more about yourself please.

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Well I am 17, I am homeschooled, so I haven't had so much contact with male "friends", I live in Oregon, and I like walking, and yeah, but I want to be with someone when I go out, and such, so that way I won't feel lonely

My father left me and my mom when I was a child so I haven't had any person to tech me baseball and stuff like that, but I just want to love, so I can be happy, and to always hold the person I love and just dream :)

Sorry about your situation, but I think we all want what you want.

I think you start not by looking for love, but loving yourself, and stepping beyond your world a bit, and meeting some new people to do things with.

The local Y, or boys club, or church activities for young people. Clubs, where there are people who do what you like, or anything where young people go for good clean fun. Volunteering is a great way to spend time, and meet people. There has to be a lot of civic groups looking for young people to help out.

Boy scouts, Youth baseball, or basketball. The list is endless really.

That's how you fill the hole in your soul.

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Sorry about your situation, but I think we all want what you want.

I think you start not by looking for love, but loving yourself, and stepping beyond your world a bit, and meeting some new people to do things with.

The local Y, or boys club, or church activities for young people. Clubs, where their are people who do what you like, or anything where young people go for good clean fun. Volunteering is a great way to spend time, and meet people. There has to be a lot of civic groups looking for young people to help out.

Boy scouts, Youth baseball, or basketball. The list is endless really.

Thats how you fill the hole in your soul.

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The problem is that I don't know where to look, I have been at the Y, and I do love myself, I am proud and I am hapy the way I am, I don't care about other people and their discrimination but still it would be nice to meet somebody new and stuff and its hard, like I suck at finding out who's gay or not, so any help would be greatly appreciated

Hi again, jumperjory!

What sort of things do you like to do besides thinking that you need to have someone else in your life, please?

There's so much more to life than spending time being a "seeker".

But, to each their own...

Thanks!