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  • Sep 4, 2009, 06:08 PM
    isunny369
    Me and my boyfriend just broke up!
    Ok well today my use to be boyfriend just broke up with me. Well we were going out for a couple of days and so he was telling me how much he loved me and stuff. But all of a sudden he dumped me! Okay I text him HEY then he text me I GO WIT *******!! I was so pissed off. So I text him OH OK That's FINE WITH ME! Which I lied about because I just didn't want to tell him how I felt. My heart was so broken and crush. I don't get it you tell me you love me and then you brake up with me? I cried for awhile and just thought about it. The bad thing is he chose a girl who is mean, loud, and rude. I treated him so good. Another bad thing is I have to see him EVERYDAY!! I just don't get it I'm the sweet girl who makes really good grades but he wants an evil witch over me!! Oh my gosh I just don't get boys and there ways. I really love him from the bottom of my heart and that text hurt me so bad that I cried for 7 hours!! He was the love of my life now he is the person I hate of my life! I hate him so much he was just playing me all along and I even ask him that! Oh my god I know I'm still in live with him!! But I also know it will take time to get over him!! Guys he told me he loved me! I hate him so much!! Oh and his name is DAIKEL who I hate!! :(:(:(:(:(:mad::
  • Sep 4, 2009, 06:16 PM
    88sunflower
    You sound really young let me just say that.

    I am sorry he broke your heart. If he chose a girl that's isn't so great, well then maybe he isn't so great. Look at how he treated you. Let her have him. I remember feelings these exact feelings many times over when I was younger. I remember my high school boyfriend and I talked over and over about a wedding. My mom said I would have 15 more boyfriends before I settled and guess what? She was right. Well not quit 15 but in a sense she was right.

    You will move on and heal. Don't let it take over your life or thoughts. He is just a boy and there are many other cuties out there. Be happy she has him now because he sounds quite miserable to me.
  • Sep 4, 2009, 06:24 PM
    Ginny Finny

    I agree with sunflower. You sound like a nicer, stronger person than this guy. If you still feel upset, hang out with your mates, watch some movies, do some girly stuff.. it all helps
  • Sep 4, 2009, 06:40 PM
    isunny369
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by 88sunflower View Post
    You sound really young let me just say that.

    I am sorry he broke your heart. If he chose a girl thats isnt so great, well then maybe he isnt so great. Look at how he treated you. Let her have him. I remember feelings these exact feelings many times over when I was younger. I remember my high school boyfriend and I talked over and over about a wedding. My mom said I would have 15 more boyfriends before I settled and guess what? She was right. Well not quit 15 but in a sense she was right.

    You will move on and heal. Dont let it take over your life or thoughts. He is just a boy and there are many other cuties out there. Be happy she has him now because he sounds quite miserable to me.
    Thanks a lot he really crush my heart really bad! But I know I will find that special one I was on YouTube listening to love songs all day long but thanks anyway!!
  • Sep 4, 2009, 06:51 PM
    isunny369
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Ginny Finny View Post
    I agree with sunflower. you sound like a nicer, stronger person than this guy. if you still feel upset, hang out with your mates, watch some movies, do some girly stuff.. it all helps
    thanks for the complaments sorry can't spell. But thank you I'm just really hurting right now but I will be okay! :):):)
  • Sep 4, 2009, 06:52 PM
    88sunflower
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by isunny369 View Post
    Thanks a lot he really crush my heart really bad!! But I know i will find that special one i was on youtube listening to love songs all day long but thanks anyways!!!!!
    Love songs bring you down. Play some rock and roll! Put on some wild clothes, turn the music up and dance like you have never danced before!
  • Sep 4, 2009, 06:55 PM
    isunny369
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by 88sunflower View Post
    Love songs bring you down. Play some rock and roll! Put on some wild clothes, turn the music up and dance like you have never danced before!
    I will try that I really love rock and roll! Thanks you have put a smile on my face and dried up my tears:):):):)
  • Sep 4, 2009, 06:58 PM
    88sunflower
    Not a problem.
    But all joking aside I used to love doing that. Now my son and I do it. Some days we play the Beach Boys, yes the Beach Boys, we throw pillows on the floor and used them as surf boards. Way to funny.
  • Sep 4, 2009, 07:08 PM
    isunny369
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by 88sunflower View Post
    Not a problem.
    But all joking aside I used to love doing that. Now my son and I do it. Some days we play the Beach Boys, yes the Beach Boys, we throw pillows on the floor and used them as surf boards. Way to funny.
    wow!! Thanks I'm about to get on YouTube right now thank you very much!!
  • Sep 4, 2009, 07:09 PM
    88sunflower
    Any time.
  • Sep 4, 2009, 07:12 PM
    Ginny Finny
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by isunny369 View Post
    thanks for the complaments sorry can't spell. but thank you im just really hurting right now but i will be okay!!:):):)

    Of course you will =) :p Here is a quote from Charles Hanson Towne (it makes me smile when I read it) - "Indeed, we do not really live unless we have friends surrounding us like a firm wall against the winds of the world".
  • Sep 4, 2009, 07:18 PM
    88sunflower
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Ginny Finny View Post
    Of course you will =) :p Here is a quote from Charles Hanson Towne (it makes me smile when i read it) - "Indeed, we do not really live unless we have friends surrounding us like a firm wall against the winds of the world".
    Very nice Ginny.
  • Sep 5, 2009, 06:18 AM
    isunny369
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Ginny Finny View Post
    Of course you will =) :p Here is a quote from Charles Hanson Towne (it makes me smile when i read it) - "Indeed, we do not really live unless we have friends surrounding us like a firm wall against the winds of the world".
    thanks! I'm kind of all right. But I'm going to wait awhile and maybe find somebody better then him. But in the mean time I'm just going to try to forget about him. And when I see him in the hallways I'm going to ignore him and talk to my very best friend erica but thanks:):):)
  • Sep 5, 2009, 06:21 AM
    88sunflower
    Keep that attitude and you will be just fine.
  • Sep 5, 2009, 08:14 AM
    isunny369
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by 88sunflower View Post
    Keep that attitude and you will be just fine.
    thanks a lot! :):)
  • Sep 5, 2009, 08:25 AM
    cal823

    You sound like an intelligent girl, smart enough to realise that one guy isn't the end of the world.
    I like to see relationships that don't work out as learning experiences.
    There's plenty of other people out there for you to meet, and not all guys are like this guy. There are good, nice guys out there. Just be yourself and be confident being yourself, and you will do fine.
    Also, I would like to share something I have noticed about myself.
    I used to like a girl, and I thought I loved her. Later I realised it was not love, I just thought it was because It was a stronger feeling than I had had before.
    Some people throw the word love around too much, and it can cause some real damage.
    Good luck, I am sure you will oneday find someone who is good for you and who truly loves you who you love back.
  • Sep 5, 2009, 08:50 AM
    HollySat

    You don't fall in love that fast, you're still young, you'll get over it - seriously, you'll be fine! ;)
  • Sep 5, 2009, 06:21 PM
    isunny369
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by cal823 View Post
    You sound like an intelligent girl, smart enough to realise that one guy isnt the end of the world.
    i like to see relationships that dont work out as learning experiences.
    Theres plenty of other people out there for you to meet, and not all guys are like this guy. There are good, nice guys out there. Just be yourself and be confident being yourself, and you will do fine.
    Also, I would like to share something I have noticed about myself.
    I used to like a girl, and I thought I loved her. Later I realised it was not love, I just thought it was because It was a stronger feeling than I had had before.
    Some people throw the word love around too much, and it can cause some real damage.
    Good luck, I am sure you will oneday find someone who is good for you and who truly loves you who you love back.
    thanks. That was so sweet! Lol
  • Jan 28, 2011, 05:32 PM
    rollwithme12333
    Same thing just happened to me

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