Collection Agency refusing Payment?
I live in Ontario Canada. I have 2 outstanding student loans (provincial & Federal)... The loans have been outstanding since 1998... when my ex-husband and I lost our business. We both claimed bankruptcy in late 2000 and I received my discharge in early 2002. Since then due to financial hardship I have made sporadic payments to them... I have been separated since last April so haven't made any payments. I have been getting calls from a collection agency and he asked me last week if we could set up a re-payment agreement or settlement as the original debtor was getting ready to pull back the debt and tend to it themselves. I explained that the best I could do was $50/month. He phoned back and told me today that he has spoked to the original debtor and they would not consider $50/mth so they were going to pull it back... he also told me that they had someone from his office call my home yesterday and speak with my 12 year old son... where in they asked if I was at home and he told them no so they asked if his daddy lived here... and my son very confused told him "sometimes" as his father does come for week long visits as he works out of province & or country. He also stated that they listened to my answering machine and that because there were two names on the answering machine that it was going to go to court and that I had better talk to my lawyer. So I guess my question is/are:
a) Can/Do they return the debt to the original debtor... in this case I think it would have been either the Prov gov't or CIBC
b) Can they refuse payment?
c) Can they question my child?
I don't know what to do... Please advise