What's the deal with my Ex. Great question I need all your help
Long story short. I Loved my ex girl friend a lot and still kind of do although I'm finally getting over her and moving on. I'm now longer deprressed about it. We were very serious, close to getting engaged, and I had her initials tattooed. I know it was dumb but felt it is part of the story so I told you. Anyway after a year and a half. We did fight a lot but the fights were about her being insecur that I was cheating on her. I never even kissed another girl the whole relationship so I would get mad at her bringing it up needless to say we had blowouts. April fools day she breaks up with me in a sentence over instant messenger. Haha jokes on me(literally). So OK she bangs this kid, then they start dating and still are. 6 monthes go by. virtually no contact between us. She calls me up out of the blue drunk one night and to tell me that she's not calling because "she wants to get back together, will jump in my bed, or were(her and her boyfriend) fighting". Then she says how great her relationship is with this kid... I tell her I still love her and miss her but its painful to have her in my life under these circumstances. Now she puts up all these lovey dovey pictures of them on Facebook, I mean over the top over the top and goes on and on and on about how happy they are. Ive been told by her girlfriends that he is really possessive of her. I was at the same bar as her one night and when I dated her she was off talking to friends then we would have a drink and whatever, when I saw her she sat at the bar with this kid behind her chair the whole time. What I'm asking is do you think it is possible that someone displays there love for someone else in such an over the top manner that it means there not in love? Im not really sure, I love her and want her back in some way, but I have moved on enough and have enogh self respect that I would never get back together with her but it still leaves me curios you know, anyway I'm really biased so mabye a third party can set me straight. Thanks, this is my first time posting a question so I'm not really sure how it works.