Looking for the title of this book. The father in the book was a graveyard caretaker. I believe the daughter had some sort of disfigurement. When the father died she continued to care for the graveyard. The story talks about the 'spirits' of the graveyard and the jobs they performed in heaven; such as making the thunder and rain.

Amazon.com: A Gracious Plenty: A Novel (0045863803870): Sheri Reynolds: Books

Thanks for your help, but this isn't the one.

Are you sure? It sounds like an exact match: She has a disfigurement, after her father's death she continues to work as a caretaker in the cemetery, and the spirts control the seasons/weather.