Me and my boyfriend are in our early 20's and we are together for 1.5 years already. It was both our first time to have sex on valentine's day last year. We tried numerous times before he got inside me. At the first attempt, I could feel him inside me very clearly with his penis pumping and continuously getting bigger inside me. The feeling was intense, painful but I enjoy to feel him inside me. However, after that first attempt, he still have a hard time getting in. His penis always slips on the lip of my vagina when he tries to enter due to my discharge and lubricant and we failed as both got very tired and we felt very disappointed. My boyfriend said he needs oral sex before he could enter as his penis will be hard enough, but I don't really like oral sex. Besides, there were times where his penis is hard enough to enter my vagina, I can't feel the feeling of his penis pumping to get bigger but it was all pain only. Nothing so special. And he got ejaculation very quickly before I feel anything special. Is that normal? Does anyone there can teach us the right techniques?
