I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and it was probably the biggest mistake of my life. First part of my question; So we had sex with a condom on first and then maybe half an hour later we had sex with out a condom on. Now, I know you can get pregnant off pre- but does a male release pre- again after he has already ejaculated?

Next part of my question, if I am pregnant, I really feel like I'm not ready to be a mother and there's no way for me to support it. I don't want to go through the emotional pain of giving a baby up for adoption either, so I'm considering having an abortion. I'm scared that this will really scar me for life but I feel like it's the best choice for me. I know that having unprotected sex was probably the STUPIDEST thing I could have done and if I could take it all back I would in a heart beat! But, if anyone has had an abortion or if anybody can give me advice it would be very much appreciated.

There could have been and probably was pre- the second time you guys had sex. Before you even start trying to figure out what's the best choice for you, I think you should find out if you're really pregnant or not. How long ago did you have sex? Have you missed a period yet? Have you taken a hpt yet?

I had unprotected sex about two weeks ago. I haven't fully missed a period yet but I started spotting when I was supposed to start and it stopped like a day after. Currently I'm three days late on period. I'm going to take an at home test on Tuesday.

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I had unprotected sex about two weeks ago. I haven't fully missed a period yet but I started spotting when I was supposed to start and it stopped like a day after. Currently I'm three days late on period. I'm going to take an at home test on tuesday.

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Find out if you are first, then go from there. No sense getting upset if you're not even certain yet. Cross that bridge when you get to it.

Let us know what the results are, we'll be here for moral support. :)

Thanks Altenweg! I appreciate it!

And don't forget to use your first morning urine when you take the test.

Okay, I'll remember that! Thank you!

So I'm cramping and it kind of feels like I'm about to start my period is this a good sign?

This is a sign that you may be starting your period. You just need to wait and see now.

Ok, and I've been spotting VERY lightly for the past 3 days. I'm worried that this is implantation. I really need help. I can't focus on school or anything right now. This is just killing me. I made the biggest mistake of my life and I'm not ready to deal with these consequences.

Sometimes that happens to me before my period. Here's a link that I think might help you: Implantation Bleeding
I know its hard, but try to relax and get some rest tonight, and take the hpt first thing in the morning.

Good news everybody! I took a test this morning and it came out negative and this afternoon I started my period! But thank you everybody for the help and support!

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Good news everybody! I took a test this morning and it came out negative and this afternoon I started my period! But thank you everybody for the help and support!

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That's great news. :)

Now that you've dodged this bullet, please, get yourself on birth control and use a condom. Really, there are so many people on this site that got pregnant even using birth control, but the chances are less if you use it.

I'm happy for you.

Also, stick around, there are other teens out there that could use your help.

That's good news. It is important as the comments abbove say to get on some sort of birth control. And that's always the way when you take a test your period comes almost straight after its sods law but atkleast you know the truth now x