Will my husband come back to me he has been gone a week and I am dying
My husband left me last Sunday after my sons football game when I caught him on the cell phone talking to a woman he had met when he was away at work.We have been married 4 years, She lives in Virginia and is married with 2 kids. They haven't been talking long, I checked the cell bill. I went ballistic as to be expected. I didn't realize anything was wrong, he has been laid off that job for 3 weeks now so he is around town all of the time now. He has told his mother and sister that he didn't cheat on me not as much as a kiss, but still says he doesn't think we can work things out, he will still tell me he loves me and his step son and doesn't want to abandon him, like his father did. I have begged him to give me another chance, I know that probably is a mistake, but I really didn't know anything was wrong until that day, and I know I can change the way I may have treated him occasionally, which really wasn't that bad. I love him with all my heart and don't see myself moving on... We are going together to another ballgame today, I just don't know whether to keep bugging him, or I'm afraid if I try to put on a happy face and leave him alone, he will think that I did give up... Help!!
Will my husband come back to me
I didn't add before that he is 10 years younger than me, but that has never been an issue, he doesn't look it, or I don't I think, I am 41, everyone guess early 30's Thank God! I am not a religious person but I have prayed and even ask a Pastor in town to talk with him, but of course he refused... He says he's OK, but just doesn't know what is wrong... Just not happy... But what blows my mind is that it has NEVER showed before, just before he left, it was I love you every time I talked to him and he always called me beautiful and was so sweet, always has been!! He always said he'd never cheat on me because his mom and dad always did and that was just wrong... I think it is over finances and responsibility, I think it just got to overwhelming and he needed a break, but I intend to force the issue of him helping pay for the house if I can, we just bought it last August, it's a 110 year old Victorian and we were remodeling and having fun doing it. I don't want to sell it, I love it! I think I mentioned before, the other women he is talking to is married with 2 kids, so how does he think that responsibilities are just going to go away?? He hasn't taken anything from the house, but his work clothes and OUR Truck, he was laid off from his job and is drawing unemployment and
Working for a friend for cash under the table... Which yes, I have considered turning them in for, but would that benefit me? He has helped me with a few bills when I ask him to, although he likes to act like he doesn't have money... $400 a week unemployment plus probably $300 or $400 more cash from his friend maybe more, it was supposed to be $100 a day in the beginning. I just don't know what to do, I love him so much and I think a lot of it was I didn't express it enough while we were together, I had been in a bad relationship with my sons father for 15 years and that hardened my heart so much, but I worked on it, or so I thought... Is it to late, I do not want to loose him, he is my heart now!